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Bad Parenting #1
If your child intentionally disturbs you,It is because you are NOT physically affectionate enough.
如果你的孩子总是故意打扰你,其实是因为你和他缺乏肢体接触,缺乏亲密感。
Bad Parenting #2
If your child is lying, It means you OVERREACTED to the mistakes in past.
如果你的孩子撒谎,其实这说明你曾经对他犯过的错误反应过度。
Bad Parenting #3
If your child had poor self-esteem, It is because you advise them more than you encourage them.
如果你的孩子缺乏自信心,其实是因为你给他们的建议多过了鼓励。
Bad Parenting #4
If your child does not stand up for themselves, It is because from a young age you have disciplined them regularly in public.(Parents shouldn’t do so even in front of siblings,friends or cousins)
如果你的孩子不能坚持自我,其实是因为他们小时候你总是在公共场合教育批评他们。
Bad Parenting #5
If you buy everything for your children still they take things that do not belong to them, It is because you don’t let them choose.
如果你什么东西都给孩子买可他们还是会去拿不属于他们的东西,其实是因为你不让他们自己选择想要的东西。
Bad Parenting #6
If your child is a coward, It is because you help them too quickly. Don’t remove every OBSTACLE from their path.
如果你的孩子很懦弱,那其实是因为你帮助他们的速度太快了。不要帮你的孩子清扫他们成长道路上的每一个障碍。
Bad Parenting #7
If your child is jealous, The reason might be you compared them with others consistently.
如果你的孩子嫉妒心很重,那可能是因为你总是拿别的孩子和他们比较。
Bad Parenting #8
If your child gets angry quickly, The reason might be you have not praised them enough. They only get attention misbehaving.
如果你的孩子很容易生气,那其实是因为你给他们的赞扬不够,他们只有行为不当的时候才能得到注意。
Bad Parenting #9
If your child doesn’t respect others feelings, The reason might be you always order them – Not giving importance to their feelings.
如果你的孩子不会尊重别人的感受,那是因为你总是命令他们,不尊重他们的感受。
Bad Parenting #10
If your child is secretive, The reason is you blow things very big.
如果你的孩子总是神神秘秘的,什么都不告诉你,那是因为你总是爱打击他们。
Bad Parenting #11
If the child behaves rudely, It is learnt from parents or others living with them.
果你的孩子总是行为粗鲁没有礼貌,那其实是从家长或者身边的人那里学来的。
父母是孩子成长过程中的榜样和朋友,孩子不属于任何人,他们是他们自己,是一个独立的人。
在鼓励中长大的孩子,必定充满自信;
在接纳中长大的孩子,必定心胸宽广;
在分享中长大的孩子,必定慷慨大方;
在友善中长大的孩子,必能对世界多一份关怀。
你的孩子在哪种环境中长大,
决定了他将来能成为什么样的人。
请一定记住:孩子的教育只有一次机会。
任何成功,都弥补不了教育孩子的失败!